WHAT IS MIDLIFE CRISES THERAPY
Midlife Crisis Therapy is solution for Midlife crisis, which is the transition era between the old you that is dependent on education and whatever comes and the new you that will be dependent on knowledge and therefore can influence to a large extent what does come your way. Because of this significance, midlife crisis therapy is much deeper than the mere external phenomenon of medication or seeing talking to someone as an end instead of seeing it as means to an end.
If you recall that changes (in your situation) that results from the external (third party influence) affecting the internal (changing your inner) is only temporary, but that changes that originate from the INNER to affect your external are permanent, you will definitely want to pursue a midlife crisis therapy that will not only end your crisis, but will also bring back in multiple folds all the good things that you may have lost during the crisis. To this end, while other solutions may exist to deal with midlife crisis, our spiritual approach to midlife crisis therapy presents both solution and opportunity to be start again as a better you.
By the Law of Relativity which states that nothing is what it is until you relate it to something else, you may not understand or even need to experience midlife crises therapy unless you have first experienced some highs in your life as explained above. Only after you have tasted happiness would you know what midlife crisis is when it comes. If you have never experienced the ‘highs’, you cannot experience the ‘lows’ and may therefore never understand the meaning of, or require midlife crisis therapy.
WHEN YOU DON’T NEED MIDLIFE CRISIS THERAPY
Midlife crisis therapy is something you understand and appreciate when you are born into a world and into circumstances that were not determined by you, at least as we understand it for now; to parents that you did not choose to be borne by. You grow up in whatever environment you find yourself, and try to make the best use of whatever comes your way. Whatever your environment provides, whether rich or poor, good or bad, healthy or otherwise, you learn to live by it.
Usually, after about 30 – 40 years of living, studying and learning from your environment via both informal and formal education, and putting to the best possible use the resources that are available to you, you are rewarded with some level of success in whatever endeavor you have chosen to take up to make a living and manifest your dreams by. At some point during this pursuit, and against the backdrop that you are emerging from a life of financial struggles, you will feel that things have finally worked out fine and you will become happy. Your business will do well, your marriage will be great, your relationship with people will be awesome, you will respected and given your place in your community. During this period, you have no need at all for midlife crisis therapy.
WHEN YOU DO NEED MIDLIFE CRISIS THERAPY
But like the bad times, the good times also don’t last forever as there always comes a time in man’s life when things go wrong and his magical powers to make things happen appear to have been taken from him. There is a point where he invokes his powers but his powers fails him. He does the same thing that has always brought him a particular kind of result over the years but gets no results. He tries harder in the ways that he knows to get results, but he is disappointed. Eventually, he comes to the realization that something has shifted (in the spirit). In the world, this era is referred to as Midlife Crises. Whether he is ready for it or not, it’s time for Spiritual Transformation, time to put away the old spiritual self and begin the process of taking on a new and higher spirituality! Hence he needs to know about midlife crises therapy.
WHY DO MIDLIFE CRISIS HAPPEN
Just as in formal education, you have grades from primary school through university and you graduate from one grade to a higher one after your capacity to excel in the higher has been developed via examinations and the various tests and activities leading to it, so also in the spiritual there’s no limit to what your spirit can achieve as long as you mind has developed the capacity and virtues to control on one hand, and withstand on the other hand, the challenges that come with the new ‘position’.
However, the decision to move on from your comfort zone is not entirely yours to make. Since it’s only nature (you may also call it universe) that understands the big picture and the exact direction you should in order to fit in the big picture, it’s nature that determines when it’s time to take away your current comfort so you can move on. Taking away your current comfort results in midlife crisis. The thing that you have to do, not to avoid midlife crisis because it is necessary but to learn as much as you can from it while it lasts and to convert its apparent setbacks to opportunities for yourself, is contained in the midlife crisis therapy.
So, when nature’s ready to promote you, it does not come down to your current spiritual level to hand you your reward, instead it invites you to come up to the higher level where your reward is waiting. This spiritual movement to a higher level is called spiritual transformation. The process sheds from you those old ‘things’ that you no longer need in the new life you are coming into. You are metamorphosed from the old you into a new you. With midlife crisis therapy, you will still achieve this goal of nature.
WHY YOU MUST EXPERIENCE MIDLIFE CRISIS
During this process which could last a couple of years, you are working at very low capacity like a computer being upgraded or a child undergoing teething. The replacements going on inside of you does not allow you to operate at full capacity. Your spiritual energy level is barely enough to support your everyday operations and therefore your works, your business, your marriage, and other personal endeavors suffer.
During this midlife crisis therapy, things appear to deteriorate. If you had plenty before, at this time you will have very little. If your business was booming before, it will experience doom in this period. Put straight, you practically ‘suffer’ during this period that the universe is building your capacity for the new position and greater things you are coming into, in line with your life purpose and the virtues that you need to develop towards its attainment.
After this ‘dry’ season and the application of midlife crisis therapy of course comes the rain, and things will not only work well for you again, you will actually recover all that you lost in the season of transformation as you enter your season on plenty as this kind of suffering is only temporary.
A CLOSER LOOK AT MIDLIFE CRISIS
As the law exists so the breaking of it can separate the criminal minded from the ‘good’ ones, so also do principles exist so the keeping of it can filter and reward the ‘good’ ones from the poor. A principle is a Spiritual law. Nature will find anyone who keeps a principle and separate him from the society of those who do not observe the principle. Keepers of principle are separated from the default state of everyone else and rewarded with equivalent benefits of principle observed. This is the only provision to becoming prosperous. Those who know this practice it and get results. Those who don’t practice it perish in ignorance.
Wealth gotten through any other means order than via practice of principle is not genuine wealth, and must be suffered for. It is either you pay the price for wealth, fame, success and achievement before you enjoy it or you force your way into apparent prosperity now and then pay the price later, in suffering. The resultant suffering is not only commensurate with the pre ‘cheating’ but comes with interest as well. This kind of suffering can take a long time indeed to complete.
PERSPECTIVES TO MIDLIFE CRISIS
A perspective of midlife crisis therapy could look at patient’s lifestyle and beliefs with a view to determining if he has been reaping where he had not sowed. If this is the case, then he must learn, as first step in the midlife crisis therapy, that his crisis may only be a way of paying back what he has borrowed in cheating nature by cheating others. As simple as this may sound, this understanding would not only help to put him in a better position to take responsibility for his situation but will also set off the healing process right away.
The accepting of the fore-going will help midlife crisis patient looking for midlife crisis therapy, to commence true search for the genesis of his problem instead of doing the more common thing of laying the blame on spiritual “enemies”. He begins to ask questions that challenges his current beliefs. He knocks hard on new doors. He seeks knowledge. He searches deep and earnestly for connection with powers that can return him to status quo. He becomes spiritual. Ultimately, he finds that which he seeks. He comes to a higher knowledge and gains midlife crises therapy that molds him into a ‘new creature’. He is a new being with new goals and vision, having developed the virtues of perseverance, hardwork, patience, faith, and having now connected in new synchronicity with his inner-self in the search that lead to his awakening. He becomes ‘born again’.
WHAT IS THE NEED FOR MIDLIFE CRISIS THERAPY
No man can become truly ‘conscious’ of spirituality unless he first passes through this Spiritual Transformation – midlife crises therapy. No man may be said to have lived a fulfilled life and developed the right virtues for heavenly splendor without having experienced the spiritual rebirth that results from midlife crises therapy. Therefore, even though this awakening era in a man’s life appear to be the most vulnerable part of his life when his life practically collapses on him, it is actually the most significant era of his stay on earth, without which he would only have existed but not lived.
Unfortunately, this is the point at which many get discouraged and give up on life. Out of ignorance, they refuse to continue the journey from the point where their old power disappears onto the point where their new power lies. They fight against circumstances without while all the time carrying and clinging to the very the cause within them that the situation was met to rid.
How many of these people that have given up on life are we able to support, even in our own midlife crises therapy journey? How many are we able to sow a seed of knowledge and courage in, to help them take the next step in their life journey and prevent them from making their current ‘bus-stop’ their final destination? Despite our own burden, we must consciously be our brothers’ keeper. This will be a true demonstration of the love on which everything else in creation rests.
WHY MIDLIFE CRISIS THERAPY
The whole essence of midlife crisis is to expand your INNER for the next level – results in your own growth and evolves you to the new you that aligns you with your purpose.
Now growth does not come from outside in. It comes from inside out. This means that any growth attained externally, by laying of hands or similar ‘miracles’ is both temporary and ultimately detrimental. The only true way to change the image is to change the object of reflection. Any other way that appears to change the image while not modifying the object to get it to reflect the desired modification, is only an illusion and offers only temporary solution.
WHAT IS AWAKENING IN MIDLIFE CRISIS THERAPY
To awaken simply means that you have successfully channeled enough energy to your mind to make it vibrate at a higher frequency than you currently are. At this new frequency, it is resonating and ‘seeing’ what was hidden to the old frequency, giving you access to a new level of knowledge that you were not aware of.
With this knowledge, ignorance begins to disappear. Although things around you may not begin to change instantly to reflect your new inner state, you will begin to feel happiness inside of you as the light of this knowledge begins to shine on the darkness of ignorance which was the hiding place for worry, fear, anxiety and all the negative children of midlife crisis within you, giving you the POWER to do on a new level, things that you could not do. As you continue to exercise this new ability to do, the knowledge knowledge with which you do them is saved for you in unearthed vessel to which you alone have the key to access. This knowledge base is called WISDOM.
The more you draw from your wisdom, the more you are able to do. This builds your FAITH and complete reliability in the orderliness and Trustworthiness of the universe. The confidence and peace that comes with this kind of faith will attract PROSPERITY to you, which means the recovery of all that you may have lost during your midlife crisis
HOW TO COME TO AWAKENING IN MIDLIFE CRISIS THERAPY
But how do you come to AWAKENING? Not everyone who experiences midlife crisis comes out of it. Some are never awakened and therefore remain in the crisis all their lives. Some, out of not understanding the real reason of midlife crisis, actually give up in suicide. Some accuse people around them of “evil powers” against them and lose focus on the goal of re-birth to wage unending spiritual wars against these perceived enemies.
To attain awakening, practice principle. This is the first, and maybe the only step that you need to consciously take by yourself in order to come out of your situation. As you practice principle, your spiritual side will be awakened and will help you to take it from that point.
But again, how do you practice principles? What are principles by the way? Can you practice principles on your current beliefs and get results for it? On what foundation must principle be practiced in order to get the results mentioned above? These are questions that you get deepANSER to only f you ask. To ask questions, complete this FORM.
THE ONE SOLUTION FOR ALL
There are not many unique solutions to the problems of the world but a single solution to all problems including and not limited to midlife Crisis Therapy. The single solution to all problems is to be spiritual. To be means that one is in harmonic operation with Nature and therefore able to woo Nature to guide, support, and harness its resources to manifest his desires. This way, one can explore multiple avenues to work simultaneously to accomplish for him that same thing that ‘the other man’ is struggling to achieve, all by himself.
To be spiritual means that one has total trust in Nature to complete its own part of the principle equation that he keeps; knowing for certain that one will reap the benefits of the keeping of principle. This complete trust that nature will do its own part at the most appropriate time it deems fit is called Faith. Thus faith is part of the requirements for midlife crisis therapy.
To be spiritual for midlife crisis therapy, one must be confident of the powers that he has accumulated inside of him. When one has knowledge, and meditates on the knowledge till he has a good understanding of it and can apply it to life situation, that knowledge becomes power. The more one accumulates and meditates on the right knowledge, the more power he gains. This is the power that instills confidence; the power that radiates calmness in the face of trouble; the power that sets one apart from another.
ALTERNATIVE MIDLIFE CRISIS THERAPY